Quote: 3) we were talking last night about the love children have for their parents. he mentioned something about children love their parents because of the parents taking care of them thru life, and that children really don't understand what real love is until they have children of their own...
now i ask you all here. seems to me he was making a comment about unconditional love, something i am really working on at the moment. do you think there could have been any meaning to his statement???
Yes children do have unconditional love and we have unconditional love for them. I know it's easier to forgive sons for something than it is to forgive H.
I particulary notice than when son doesn't want a hug, says he doesn't like me, wipes off my kisses...it doesn't bother me because I know he'll always love his mother, now if H would do something like that, well then that's a different story. BUT, I am trying to change this thought perception, it's hard but have been really paying attention to why I feel this way when H does things to push me away. We do need to have unconditional love for our spouses, also, it's just very hard to do some days.
Aren't little ones great! My son is going to be four in December, he's the joy in my life.
