Believe me. I can relate and so can many others on this board.
RATIONAL is the key word in how you should be thinking.
There is a fine line between LOVE and HATE.
Dont let your emotions cloud your judgement.
You NEED to be thinking what's best for you and your boys.
Being strong minded and having a productive Co-Parenting R with your W is what's important.
I personally think you should just cool out this week. Ignore her calls or txts. Talk to your lawyer and decide what's best for your FAMILY'S future.
Many a M has survived this an worse.
Stay strong and once again DONT let YOUR EMOTIONS CONTROL YOU. Allow yourself time to feel the pain then cool down and FIGHT for your FAMILY if that is what you choose.
Remember your W is in a fog right now. Like you have said for the last 8 mons. "For better or worse...." this is her worst. Show her that you will help her through this by thinking RATIONALLY and do what's best for your family. Now is the time to figure out your NUTS and set BOUNDARIES.
