LW You are letting your shame/fear take over. Be fearless. Thats what i told Orich. I realized that my main problem dealing with my waw was that i was afraid of loosing her too much. Once you let go of the notion that loosing her is something you have control over, you will know what you will have to do. Do not fear loosing her. Rather accept it and then step into her pain. Stall as much as u can. But don't ignore her. Don't play games as she will know. Detaching is not about ignoring her, from what i can gather it is about coming to terms with the situation and moving forward. The person you fell in love with is not there anymore. This is a new person and if you want her back you have to stop being old you and start being new you. Too much seriousness and not enough laughter will always bring up with wall in her. If you are easy to talk to and light hearted then she will respond. That should be a huge 180 for anyone. The seriousness of this situation is not lost on me, but as i told orich, we have to be men/leaders and not fear the unknown.
