You are so right...it is amazing how scripted things sound during affairs. Of all the books I've read on infidelity and such, I swear, all the words and lines they say you will hear are the exact words my husband has said...literally word for word. The "it's not you, it's me" and the "I love you, but I'm not in love with you" It's too bad the person having the affair can't see that! But I know that his head is in the clouds right now and he feels like he's right and everyone else is wrong.