I do plan on seeing a lawyer - in Arizona. Since she can't file until September (of if she tries, the courts have to throw it out) and we originally weren't planning on seeing each other until around September anyway, I am going to see if we can even reconcile a little bit.

But if she does file, or seems like she's about to, then my kids come first. I'll move to Arizona, use the money I'm saving up here to get me started and tide me over for a month or three, find a job down there, and get a lawyer (since if she files, it will be in Arizona).

But until then, I'm going to act like the original plan is still in place - for the kids at the very least, since they apparently still think that's the plan (my wife says she hasn't told them anything yet).


Me: 35
W: 31
D10, S7, S2, S11 months
M: 11 years
Tricked into separation.
In Last Resort.

My story:
http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=1800530#Post180053