From time to time you're gonna have these kinda days because they swell from impulse to get impatient with the shortcomings that we have to deal with now. But they do pass and slowly they fade away when you start seeing yourself progress towards the future you envision where you are a loving, happy couple raising your daughter together. Think about what that would be like. What do you picture the three of you doing then? What do you picture is different between you and your H then. Is that something worth shooting for? ... even if it takes a little longer to get there? Give yourself a couple of days to answer these and if you come back with brighter answers, you will discover a renewed strength to one again exercise the patience that is needed to move closer to that vision.
The important thing to do now is to do nothing! Don't act upon the negative vibes your experiencing now ... as you have done, let yourself work thru emotion by writing it all down here ... but continue to act "as-if" it will get better to the outside world. Give some time to see if it will pass ... afterall tomorrow's dawn starts a whole new day and you may have a different outlook then...