Quote: 3) he sought me out this morning for a good bye hug.
I can't remember the last time my H sought me out for anything, let alone a hug. Oh yeah, he'd always seek me out for sex, morning, noon or night...the one thing I could always count on him wanting from me. I knew the day he quit pursuing I'd be in trouble and this is what happened and from that point on I knew something was definitely wrong.
Three positives! Sounds really good to me. I found it helpful to think about how'd I'd get along without H so I could let him go in my mind and I know I can do fine without him. Which makes me stand a little stronger some days and say poo on you to him.
I think mental imagery is a great way to get you used to a situation you might soon be in, it does me anyway.
I know I'll be okay either way, and if things don't work out between H and me then there's something better coming my way.
