Thanks, undrdg. It does help a bit. I am still not 100% in the DB area, and you said it brilliantly. I do treat the positive things as made of glass. I use them to hold on. I want so badly for my W to love me again that any and everything I could possibly use to help get that back becomes extremely important to me and I focus so much attention on it. Believe it or not, I was worse in this area than I am now. But I am not fully there yet.
Me-40 W-41 Together-10 M-8 S-6 S-4 Bomb 5/08 Bomb 10/08 Thought things were better, was wrong. Still living together Wife doesn't think she will ever love me again.