"When you add OM as a friend on FB, after I told you how I felt and the boundary I thought was going to be respected. You adding him as a friend on FB makes me feel_________ and _______. If you do not remove him and if you contact him again. I will __________."
I would be very calm, strong and in control. You know what you need to do. You are already dead this can't hurt you.
Cheers Coach
Thanks Coach,
It's that third blank that's the killer.
"Or I'll what..."
The only step I can take is to begin initiating D proceedings myself
Right now I think that is exactly what she wants - to get D'd without taking responsibility for doing so.
Or what else? - or I'll get angry? Or I won't be your best friend any more?
Me 42, W 39, S8, S6, S2 M 11y, A & ILYBNILWY 11/08 Walking away from a bad situation.