I am not being nice about the affair, I have told him it hurts and it is the worst thing he could have done...but I also don't try to ask about it either. I don't ask him really any questions about her at all.
I know she is single, is 24 (my H is 31) and has a 3 year old daughter and she lives in Texas...that's all I know.
He has been being pressured by his family, his friends, even his boss. They have all told him he is making a mistake by throwing away his entire life and a good marriage on a gamble with someone he barely knows. All he says is that he is happy and he is thinking about himself and his own happiness for once in his life.
We did speak about things a little yesterday, and all he ever does is defend his R with this OW. He just says this is what he wants and he has to do.
