One other thing about hte phone bill - I noticed that she is the one who always initiated contact when it occurred. I think this is just hte protocol that has been established because she doesn't want him texting her unless it is safe (doesn't want me or kids to see a text from him). Therefore she initiates contact and probably says don't text back, etc. depending upon what the situation is.

Anyway, there were only a few text conversations, so I can definitely determine that the EA has subsided from earlier levels which I had suspected anyway. They were talking every day for 2 hours through February, and when it flared up again in May I think they were talking a few times a week and doing lots of texting prior to me busting it again in early June.

Since it seems to be quieting down I am going to try to relax and go back to my own 'work' and do my best to be a good DBer. I felt like I Was there a week ago but the contact with OM threw me off.

ME/XW:47
S21, D19, S15, S14
M:21 T:26
W moved 6/10 I filed 7/10 D final 4/12 remarried 8/12
W wants to R 12/10 and 4/11 but I decline