There were lots of explicit emails back and forth until 2 weeks ago. She us on match dot com just starting up a conversation with a 51 year old

She is actively out there and has crossed the line. I have had enough. No one is worth being lied to constantly.

The worst part of it is that I don't know how long it has been going on. Especially since my 3 year old doesn't look like me

This is crap

Me 41
WAW 36
S 3&7
M 10 yrs
W files D 1/9/09
W moves out 4/18
Lost job 6/15
New job 7/27
Disc PA 8/10 (started Nov 2008!)
Confronted 8/11
Admits PA & appologies for hurt 9/11
Lost Job 11/13