He said I don't need him anymore and don't want him to come home.
He's trying to control the situation and you. Expect more of the "I was going to come back, but you did X" type statements.
He's also trying to mind read you. Tell him he does not know what you think/want, but if he wants to know, just ask you.
One of the things that will be important isto stop worrying about what H might think if you do something. As long as what you do is the right thing FOR YOU, then what H thinks/does is irrelevant.
