Teratosa,

I haven't spotted your post. I'll look a little later when I get back home from GAL'ing wink

I think you'll find that just about anything you do will annoy the heck out of your H. Just grin and bear it.

Don't you think it's odd that someone can be upset because someone else can be happy?

The last bit is pure and simple bulldust. I get exactly the same.

Do what your doing - try not to worry about H - I know it's hard but just try to do it.

Don't react right away - give it a fair amount of time. 24 hours or so. He's trying to get your goat up.

I'm VERY sure some of the "big guns" will drop in on you very soon with much clearer advice than I can give.

Chin up girl.

Mac