Thanks for all your help on Kevin's friend. He needs all the support he can get, as you know.
I hope he calls you, Wifey.
Stacy
He called and we talked for a while. Its a fresh start for all of us. I told him how soppy I started out. Those that started with me about the same time remember, I'm sure.
Yesterday is done and over - today is a new day.
Me 45, H 46, S 23, M 26, Together 30, Bomb 6-2-08, S 6-19-08; H left 12-29-08. H home 12-09, Still MLC in 2012! Me- I have my big girl panties on. Bring it.
Today is a new day. I went to my AA meeting last night.
Kevin
Me 36, W 37 M: 08/02/97 D13, D9 1st Bomb 02/08 Reconciled 04/08 2nd Bomb: 09/08 W filed for D 02/04/09 Separated 03/09 D dismissed 06/09/09 Still separated...
He called and we talked for a while. Its a fresh start for all of us. I told him how soppy I started out. Those that started with me about the same time remember, I'm sure.
No, I think I remember all of us were emotionally level and had nerves of steel from last summer.
M22,H45,W45 S21/18D12 Retain faith that you will prevail in the end, regardless of the difficulties and at the same time confront the most brutal facts of your current reality, whatever they might be.
Oh now Coach, maybe you were emotionally level, but I was anything but. I look back now and I shake my head. There is no way through the mine-fields, but through them.
Me 45, H 46, S 23, M 26, Together 30, Bomb 6-2-08, S 6-19-08; H left 12-29-08. H home 12-09, Still MLC in 2012! Me- I have my big girl panties on. Bring it.
Today is a new day. I went to my AA meeting last night.
Kevin
I am so proud of you, Kevin!
Me 45, H 46, S 23, M 26, Together 30, Bomb 6-2-08, S 6-19-08; H left 12-29-08. H home 12-09, Still MLC in 2012! Me- I have my big girl panties on. Bring it.
I am leaving my sister's tomorrow and will be heading out to see Strong Marvelous Woman. I can't wait!
Me 45, H 46, S 23, M 26, Together 30, Bomb 6-2-08, S 6-19-08; H left 12-29-08. H home 12-09, Still MLC in 2012! Me- I have my big girl panties on. Bring it.
Me 45, H 46, S 23, M 26, Together 30, Bomb 6-2-08, S 6-19-08; H left 12-29-08. H home 12-09, Still MLC in 2012! Me- I have my big girl panties on. Bring it.
Me 36, W 37 M: 08/02/97 D13, D9 1st Bomb 02/08 Reconciled 04/08 2nd Bomb: 09/08 W filed for D 02/04/09 Separated 03/09 D dismissed 06/09/09 Still separated...
OH man oh man. SMW and I are having a blast. Several peppermint patties later - we are conspiring a little. Actually we are conspiring a lot.
I can't fill you all in just yet, but if you would take a look around the web for The Other Woman, Ask Suzie, and some other sites and take a look at the "pain" the other woman feels and how they agonize over playing second fiddle........ you might have some clue what we are considering. With a little help from friends...
Much of this comes from us figuring out that we have been praying for the wrong links in the chain. Maybe it isn't the spouses that have to be worked on - maybe it is the OP that has to be "helped" and "informed."
Well, more on that another time. Sorry to keep you hanging, but with a little bit of time this could get interesting.
Sorry Tomato and CIPA, I obviously haven't made it out of here yet. I still haven't heard on the job - so I haven't had a reason to rush on out. I'll keep you posted.
I go home tomorrow, um, I think. May or may not. Chow!
Me 45, H 46, S 23, M 26, Together 30, Bomb 6-2-08, S 6-19-08; H left 12-29-08. H home 12-09, Still MLC in 2012! Me- I have my big girl panties on. Bring it.
