Was it a good idea to tell her the truth? I don't want lies to be part of our R right now as it is teetering on failure. But what if the truth pushes us over the edge? She hasn't responded at all. OK, that was just putting down on "paper" what is running through my mind. Now, how to deal with it. I plan on not bringing it up again. It isn't her concern who I speak to, and she knows it won't go further than him. I didn't want anyone we know together to know what is going on, but it was a weak moment when he approached me. I told her i didn't let her know that the deacon knew because I didn't want her to think I was running around telling everyone we know.
Me-40 W-41 Together-10 M-8 S-6 S-4 Bomb 5/08 Bomb 10/08 Thought things were better, was wrong. Still living together Wife doesn't think she will ever love me again.
