Hi everyone. I will try to keep this as brief as possible. Not even sure where to start, but here it goes. I've been with my H for 10years...married 7. He is 31 I am 33. We had some problems a few years back, but we worked through them and everything had gotten a lot better. Well due to the economy, he lost his job. I had prayed and prayed for an opportunity to come his way so he could work again...and it happened! He received a call with a job offer. Making more money than before..so we were thrilled. The downfall is the other job was in another state. We were told he wouldn't be there forever, just temporarily. So we didn't make any plans to move there. That was in February. Now it's the end of July and he is still there.While he was gone he came to visit home every few weeks. I went to visit him as well. We had a talk in June about how happy we were and how things have really improved for us. he told me he loved me and cherished me and our marriage. Well two weeks later, he started acting strange. he became very distant, quiet, just wasn't acting himself. So I asked what was wrong and he dropped the D bomb on me. Told me he wasn't happy and wanted a divorce. That he felt like he loved me more like a sister than a wife. I was utterly shocked. I couldn't for the life of me understand how things could change so drastically so fast. the only thing I could think of was that he met someone who put the little sparkle in his eye. Well after some prodding, he finally told me that he did meet someone. Some 24 year old and he thinks they are soulmates and in love. So I continued to try to understand what went wrong in our marriage. he said nothing went wrong, his feelings just changed. He told me he loves me, he enjoys spending time with me, he loves talking with me and that he still wants me in his life, just doesn't want to be married to me. he also told me that he thinks I am perfect and there is absolutely nothing he would change about me. I am just dumbfounded! He is in a huge rush to get divorced too. He told me he met OW in June, told me he wanted a D on 4th of July and has already contacted an attorney. So, I need help, I have no idea what to do. I love this man with all of my heart and I think he doesn't realize what the heck he is doing.
