Originally Posted By: Steve McQueen
when you suspect them cheating is it wise to ask them straight out or just keep it bottled up?


Get solid evidence first. The gaslighting they all do is emotionally draining, especially when the truth does come out months or years down the road.

Because it generally does.

Don't give her room to maneuver, keep it short, don't let her divert the conversation when it happens.

Just an "I know, I have evidence, and you have a choice to make." type conversation.

IMHO anyway.

"You can't reason someone out of a position they didn't reason themselves into."