all is well, son and ex went out again yesterday, son had a good time, on his return I went to let son in through the garden gate and ex called me and actually spoke nicely to me. today he texted me this morning and then came and picked son up to take him for a tv that son was buying himself out of his birthday monies, again I chatted to ex and it was a relief that we can now actually chat without any nastiness, for now anyway, he couldnt look at me but then again i dont expect him to, he dropped son off and again after leaving he rang me and chatted for a good half hour. I am pleased that we can get on now with no nastiness etc, I dont want to go back to all that fighting and spewing, I am pleased my son is happy again and wish them both a succesful re-union,. me I will chat and be friendly with ex, I can do it now, I couldnt before, just wonder if ex is realising what he as lost, he keeps enquiring about mine and sons forthcoming holiday, boy I bet he wishes he was coming with us, who knows; at least son is happy, and happy birthday today to him as he turns 15 years old xxxxx