I know I don't have to tell them anything but she's a friend of mine and her brother is friends with my H and she was curious as to what happened and I told her. (She's not that close of a friend but close enough).
Mac: I know there's a lot of mind reading going on and I should stop. Who know's she could just be a friend he made but considering his past, he doesn't make friends online, he makes dates or f*ck buddies, esp on MS. But whatever. He can do whatever he wants but he's in no way getting my help in staying here.
So I'm heading into the city on Friday of this week to hand in my deposit and addendum to the leasing department of my new home!! And then I have an appt with Immigration to discuss this "form" that H is asking me to sign and to discuss a few other things.. After the emails he sent me, I really do not want him to stay here and after all the extensive research I've done, he IS filing under emotional abuse because its the easiest way to file a waiver of joint signatures (I wouldn't be called in to plead my own case and there are sometimes no trial/meeting even)and I want to know what my options are to prevent this.
I know I may be reading into things, but I don't think it hurts to get some information that could protect myself if this were to happen. Thats it, I'm just protecting myself.
So then after that, I'm going to meet up with my friend for lunch to relieve the stress that'll be having from the appt. Anyway, just got off the phone to my friend, she's very surprised at the emails that H sent me, doesn't understand it at all and out of all my friends, she likes my H the most and is very saddened by it all, but she's supporting my decisions not to sign etc. Which is good, I need her support because this is a very hard decision.
Me: 25 years young H: 37 No Kids M: almost 3 years (anniv coming up Sept 25th) Together: 4years Bomb: June 12th, 2009
**LOVE WILL FIND A WAY FOR TWO FOOLS IN THE RAIN**