GIMA, I have not posted much on your sitch, as you seem to be doing so darn well. Keep it up man.
One of things I had worried about to was detaching and NOT wanting to stay with my W, but I think you have to place those story telling future thoughts aside as well, as they will block your progress.
I am becoming a fan of living in the 'now' and not the past/future, where I seemed to be spending a lot of my 'thought' time.
M: 41 STBXW: 41 D: 9 Bomb: 4/26/09
On board the D train now..
"Suffering is when we try to change what we cannot."