Not Me...Ever part 2

[The Wifey]

I had a call from my Pastor last night who forced me to put things back into perspective...

I kept focusing on what has been lost and he wants me to focus on what I have...

He said he has been thinking about my husband and I and thinks I need to let go - I am assuming that doesn't mean run out and file for divorce though...

I think he means I need to stop letting these thoughts get in there and consume me...

Apparently I am not doing as good as I thought I was lol

Happy thoughts for all (((Hugs)))

(((Serenity)))

Something that helps me is a gratefulness journal. Even on my lowest, most awful days, I can think of things I am grateful. Talk about focusing, it really opens your eyes to actually write down what you have.

As for your H's comments - he is justifying and trying to give reasons why he is an adulterer. Trying to make himself look better - and failing miserably.

I would ask your "friends" to only tell you things that threaten you legally. If it is just a running commentary on what he says it is far too painful and damaging, and if they are truly friends then they will refrain.

Anyone that doesn't respect this statement you should minimize time with.