Maybe it's just me, but I wouldn't put much thought into it. I am mid 30's and have listened to them since they first came onto the music scene, mid 90's or so. Their music covers alot of area, very hard and heavy to very heavy acoustic sound. As far as why she would be listening, just sounds like maybe she is finding some angry music, but I don't know that they necessarily have a message in their music compared to some other bands out there who try to have one. If you're worried about the band's name, they actually stole the name from the name of a song from another band.