Thanks for checking on Girlfromoz. I know what you mean about Newcomers, I was actually over there checking on a long time poster there and was drawn to her. I do believe she should be over here, but this place can be slow when you are new, you know sorta like a high school click and the new student, lol, and she needs to have people just talking right now.
I do think she also has a good shot but she could really make it go either way right now. I know that was not the best place for me simply because the advice was counter intuitive to what has worked but this is a whole different animal here. So time off, name change, and a whole different perspective are what I needed to come back to the boards and post at all.
Anyway, going to check in with FG, you sound good, sorry you ran into OM. I ran into OW 1 five years later and it was just as uncomfortable as you are describing. Guess just how some things are.
"Acceptance doesn't mean resignation. It means understanding that something is what it is and there's got to be a way through it."--Michael J. Fox
