Hi BJ, been thinking about you. I hope you won't torture yourself by looking at old pictures and reading old love letters. You are setting yourself up for more temptations and more pain. Stick to your originals plan you had made to do while W is gone.
Aren't you glad that you didn't do more than TM her on the anniversary? Now you see her reaction to it. When is she scheduled to return home?
It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!
