WAW - Very confused and devastated - pt 11

[MrBond]

Whoa. Really sorry for that to happen.

Have you called to confront her?

Now you know why she's been jerking you around so much.

Don't be surprised that if when you do decide to confront her, she's going to blame you for invading her privacy, how dare you, blah blah blah.

Keep all these records and give them to your L.

You'll now be thinking about whether or not you should get full custody of the kids.

If you do plan to confront her, DO NOT do it in a demanding, how dare you kind of way. It is going to be hard as hell. Just say it very matter of factly and that you will be coming by to collect your kids so that she can pursue her A in the open and they are not a burden to her any more.

You can't control how she feels and she is going to fight you tooth and nail about it.

When I found out about my W's A, I kicked her out. She's been pulling your strings for too long my friend. Now is the time to cut them.