I've not posted to you before but have followed your sitch. My H still has OW so you're ahead of me and it's giving me a bit of hope.
Things for you do seem to be heading in the right direction. Well done.
Just wanted to add that I seem to fall into the 'pathetic' unable to give it up category too. Not that I think it's pathetic we just know what path we want to take but have to be prepared to be patient, it's going to be a long walk.