Anyone have ideas for how I can word things to husband about boundaries and just being tired of where things are at. There are a few points I want to get across. First, that I love him and want out marriage to work, that I don't want to continue to wait on him and live my life in limbo land while he continues to drink and do ????, that I don't like that I am a 37 year old married woman and I can't ML to my husband without having to worry about STD's, that I would like to see XYZ by a certain time or I am going to proceed with the legal separation. I honestly don't have any idea how we could even begin to rebuild any trust back into the relationship, but I am cleat that there will be no chance unless he get's into IC for his addictions. That is the first step. I don't feel so desperate anymore that I am going to loose him. I'm not sure what I feel...kinda numb I guess. I mean I am sad because I realize he could just continue this way and never get healthy and I don't want that for me or my son. But, I guess I just know now that life will go on if I have to move on. Not what I want at all, but I would live through it. I'm sure after a year of separation I should have been at this point much earlier, but I have hopefull to a fault. Just random thoughts, but I really would like some help with the wording of things...anyone? Puppy you always have great ideas????
