Hi, just thought I'll pop in to say hi girlfromoz, I'm probably a lot closer to your timezone than some of the folks here, and I'll chip in a little bit of support for the hell you are going through for what it's worth.

Jenjam's points are good, as is so much of the advice you'll find here. I wish I found this much earlier when I was in the lowest depths of my hell. Followed some of the techniques even though I had not read about it then, and screwed up royally on some things I did not know then.

Cheers,


Me 42
W 39
Married: 11 Jan 1998, T: Since 1992
First Bomb: Sep 2007
Confirmed A/OM: 4 Nov 2007
Kids: D10, S5
Reconciled and together again after (alot of) time and heartbreak.
3rd kid, S, born 2 Jan 2010.