Hi Kitti,

Thank you for all of your kind words yesterday. I actually told David you said I was the sunshine here. I said what a nice thing to say and he said yes, I said if these people like me how/why could my two closest friends do what they did to me last year? He said I have no idea. I said how do I deal with those emotions he said post and ask.

I think it is a good sign from him that he realizes what my two closest friends did do to me last year.

Ok, your thread!

I wanted to thank you and say I think the idea of validating and talking with your h sounds like a good one. Maybe between the two of you there will be some ideas to turn his thinking around!

BTW I hope I didn't ruin your evening. I am so sorry for yesterday.


Pam

"We must be willing to let go of the life we had planned
so as to have the life that is waiting for us"