Sometimes he is. He still doesnt know, having doubts, is confused and blah blah blah. Which I think is special since he was the one with a 22 year old GF! grumble grumble.
Im trying to respect how confused he is, and how he got to the point where he was so unhappy he sought out another person... but really, Im having a hard time seperating that from enabling him, the A is over, but still... For now, Im trying to be patient. Im not positive that I could forgive him and actually want him back. He lives in Va and I live in Ak, so Im a little nervous about if we are going to be able to make progress.
I think that the pain wearing off is just time healing your wounds. Its what we all need!
I guess I gave the wrong finger to the wrong man...