Just dropping by my thread with an update. TM'd my W last night at 11:45 p.m. her time to wish her a Happy Anniversary and got a quick response back: "You to".

Was putting some stuff away in the attic today and ran across a box with a bunch of love letters between me and my W while we were dating in college. I started reading some of them and it really brought back a lot of good memories, especially how much in love we were back then- and how much I still love her. I wish I could share those letters with my W when she gets back from her trip, but I know it just would be a wasted effort and could make things worse. I shouldn't have read those letters- they make me tempted to write my W an email- I know that she is checking our email (and I'm sure she is checking her separate gmail account as well)- but I know that won't help my cause either.

Well tonight I'm going to be hanging up a large picture frame my W took down for Xmas decorations last year and never hung back up. It has a lot of good family pictures in it- including pictures with me in it! Not sure how my W will react to it when she returns, but it'll be up when she does.


M: 41
W: 39
S: 11
S: 10
D: 4
1st contact w/OM: 1/19/09
EA began: 2/14/09
EA discovered: 3/1/09
I file for D 8/25/09 to protect myself
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