I'm wondering now, after reading so many others posts for the past few hours... whats her hurry? She left when she filed, and the only time we spoke about why shes doing this, and not waiting a little bit, she said she had to get it in writing, and that no matter what shes going all the way with the D, but followed it up with a maybe we can get back together after its all over. I don't mean to sound like I'm quitting, cause I'm not, but I think only God could change her mind on the D... she told me yesterday that everything should be done by mid September. Has anyone dealt with this? Has anyone saved it in such a quick time with so little contact? Either way I'm not giving up on her, I just wish we didn't have to go there. It kills me cause shes petitioned to change back to her maiden name... when does it get easier?
