I have been seperated for almost 15 months. Its been a long road, and you start thinking less and less about them. But its true, you shared your life with this person, but I think that coming on here helped me a lot.

I would recommend that you continue GALing, maybe even ramp it up a some for a little bit. Do something nice for yourself! Do you have nice sheets on your bed? I know that its girlie, but it did me good! I got a whole new bed set, nothing on my bed, including the mattress, has ever been touched by H. It was good for me. Is there something else you could do for yourself? New seat covers for the truck, or something?

I guess I gave the wrong finger to the wrong man...