Positive developments? #2

[jon2911]

Long talk with W last night. Helped her shop for a laptop and we caught up for a while.

I asked if I could visit next week, and she said "I think next time I should come there. My family is dropping by a lot unannounced and I don't want it to be weird."

She later explained that SSIL (step-sister-in-law LOL) has been diagnosed bipolar and has been dropping by a lot. I told her that the three of us hung out a lot when SSIL first moved home in February. Everything was cool then. She said that FIL and MIL have been interrogating SSIL about W every time they hang out, trying to find out what W is up to.

So, basically, my W doesn't want me to visit because she doesn't want her parents to find out through her crazy step-sister. What the hell is going on? I'm so angry today. I wanted to say a lot of things like "don't you realize they know we spend time together?" This secretiveness drives me absolutely nuts.

I guess at root it's a lame excuse by W for not wanting to see me. Which doesn't make it any better. At least she said "next time" and the talk went well.