I just slept in the bed and she slept outside. She then came into the bed because she couldn't sleep. The thing is I've had to do this the last 2 weeks.
Your all right in that you can't fight it. I think she has started working full-time and that may have triggered it.
I think now I just have to work out a couple of things: 1. How do I now balance the needs of my kids & myself whilst trying to take care of them in a dysfunctiomal relationship ? 2. How long do I let this go on before I end the relationship ?
Atm I'm wondering if she will ever have the ability to act like an adult. Will I always miss out on adult conversation & an adult intimate relationship ?
I think in someways the only way to get through this is to forget that your married. You have to be a doormat to a degree. I also have to realise that she has basically the emotional maturity of a teenager. You can't talk to her about what is going on because she can't express herself.
