I don't consider it an abusive M just because we had a major arguement last night.
It's an abusive M because you are an alcoholic.
And, in my opinion, people usually say what they REALLY think when they're drinking. Inhibitions are lower, and things do tend to "slip out". Deep down, I think you do feel your wife has been a "whore", I don't think you said it to be mean, that's what you think. If you didn't think that, you never would have said it.
Instead of being served, why don't you just sign? Do you want to be embarrassed at work? What's the point?
Are you following up on counseling for your girls tomorrow??
