My daughters didn't hear anything. D11 is in Florida and D7 was not around.

I know I should not have called her that. She called me some things also and I should just have not responded. I said it after I had been drinking, not before. It was later on in the night.

I probably will get served this week. She seemed completely serious about it.

I don't consider it an abusive M just because we had a major arguement last night.

Yes, this is a wake up call. I'm going to AA and doing the 12 step program.

I did tell her that I do not think any of those things about her and I wish I had not said it.

It was a terrible thing to say. I guess because she has been going after guys with money it just came out of me. But I should never ever have said it. I can't believe I let it slip out.

The D process will be a minimum of 4 months.

Kevin


Me 36, W 37
M: 08/02/97
D13, D9
1st Bomb 02/08
Reconciled 04/08
2nd Bomb: 09/08
W filed for D 02/04/09
Separated 03/09
D dismissed 06/09/09
Still separated...