Oh yeah I've heard that threat many times. But his is always that he doesn't "care" who else it hurts. I always reminded him about the kids and played right into it until the last time. When he was in town for the kiddos and acted like a nut. No kidding, that same day he had said to me that he would never see me again except to "spit on my grave". Because I am so evil and do not want him back. Imagine that?

So then he started in with the wanting to die talk and I just spoke before I even thought.. I just flat out looked at him and said, "Well, I guess do whatever you feel you need to do." He was speechless. I haven't heard the threat in exactly that manner again. Since he didn't get what he wanted from it. Fun times, huh?


"Success is the sum of small efforts, repeated day in and day out."
Robert Collier

"One's best success often comes after their greatest disappointments."
Henry Ward Beecher

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