Spent an hour with Pastor and his wife today after church. His summation was that Dan has to start experiencing the consequences of his choices, sooner rather than later. Not to try to get him back, but because he just needs to learn to take responsibility for his life and where he is in life instead of blaming me for his crappy circumstances.
He is worried that Dan is possibly using 'real' women at this point, because magazines and strippers are only fulfilling for a short amount of time and then a person requires more to get the same feeling. Kind of like drugs I suppose...this was triggered by me telling Pastor that Dan told me he didn't go to the strippers anymore b/c they were 'annoying'...
