Hi KMS, thanks for posting and sharing some of your sitch. Does your xh call often with his "problems?" I would think that would get tiresome after awhile. We don't have children but the state of our house will force us to communicate for a time even after the big D.

I think that the real rock bottom for him would be if Catbitch kicks him out. Pretty sure that's why he's so anxious to settle by the 24th.

Sent the email to my L and we have an appointment for Thursday. He says that if H signs an alimony agreement and then doesn't pay it, family court will hold him in contempt and arrest him.

Great - how will that help me pay the bills?!

Last edited by Silver Fox; 08/09/09 06:11 PM.

Me 56
H 47
Married 21 years
No children
Bomb & moved out 4/07 "My feelings have changed" & "I want to live by myself".
Ow Bomb 8/07
H filed 6/08
D final 2/05/10