Okay, I'm not generally one to say "I told you so", but KK I TOLD YOU SO!!!
I'm just glad that YOU finally see that you've belonged over here with us all along.
(Pam, you have NOOOO idea how I long for YOU to join us too!!!).
I can tell you for sure that it IS possible to "piece" from where you are at. I don't think CJ would say he is "in love" with me the way he imagines it "should" be...the way it was at the beginning or with the OW .
But we ARE rebuilding our R. We ARE rediscovering the joy in each other's company, we are having signs of renewed "interest".
I think it's a very good idea to move forward with signs of affection. Hugs, kisses, cuddling, sometimes these connect us as much or more than "sex" itself. And it seems rather foolhardy to think that "in love" feelings will suddenly re-emerge out of a "no contact zone"...let it build up, get to know each other again. No pressure, just pleasure and sharing.
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