Another Waw

[Refuse to quit]

Sorry guys that I have not posted in a while. I appreciate your insight Burt. Well last Sat the 1st I had a great day and get a letter from her attorney stating that they would like to do curbside exchanges with the kids as my W has been telling them that I have been harassing her. I was pretty upset. The things that were quoted in there as things that I had supposedly said really upset me. They were lies. I saw her the next day Sun. when getting the kids and had her read the letter while I put the kids in the car. She read the letter and I asked her "Do you agree with this?" She said "yes." I then asked her two more times if she thought that these statemenst were 100% correct. She said again yes they were. I then told her how I felt about them and that they were lies. I never raised my voice or got angry but when I left the last thing I told her was "This really breaks my heart." I had a great day with the kids and when I dropped them off she was very cold. Over the course of last week on the Tues. exchange she brought a person with her (bodyguard/witness who knows) and on Thurs it was very short. I said "Hi" to her and that was it nothing else. On Fri. when I got the kids she tried talking to me and tried smiling at me and I just acted as though it was a business exchange. I have stopped doing the nice things for her and I deleted her from my FB account. I found out that the only reason she wanted to be on there was to see what I was up to. (found out from a mutual friend who she told) I guess I feel like that was a control issue to see what I was doing. So I wanted to take that away. I have been and will be as elusive if not more so than she had tried to make herself. I hate these games but I just wish she would come to her senses and do what she wants to do and not what everyone else (her family) is telling her to do. I guess I feel like as the more time goes on she will see the contrast between what they are telling her and what she actually sees. I also found out that her brother has been watching me at work and reporting back to her. Another reason why I stopped writing on here during work time. Thanks all for listening. Any advice?
RTQ