Sorry I didn't express that well, the question mark was actually referring to him doing his own discovery regarding our financial lives together, & using that to determine if the amt. I'm requesting hits the mark.
In other words, it's yet more #'s from him to me that won't be submitted legally. My attorney has had some pretty good laughs at some that he's given me so far. (25% of 25% & 50% of 50% for community property.) I've already expressed to him that he will be required to submit to the courts if we don't reach an agreement beforehand, I just want the bottom line right now.
We will be going to court re;child visitation, as he would now like to have S6 enough for him to qualify as head of household filing status for tax purposes. He actually put that in writing to me...further proof there was an abduction <;)
Unfortunately for him, I documented every hour he spent with his son since 4/23/07 & every trip taken since that time, & it isn't pretty. Although I know they don't care legally that he took OW on many of those trips, I included them in my documentation that I submit anyway.
Going to the beach for play dates & enjoy this incredible day.