I know the pain you are feeling. Hang in there. I have a feeling most people will tell you no note with the cable, and if anything, just a simple "Found your cable" and nothing else. Nada.
It sucks, but dwelling on just increases the suckage.
Thank you for the prayers in my thread. He's doing ok this morning - sorta wait and see.
The trouble with having an open mind is that people put things in it.
My sitch - Divorce Busted! http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=1804137#Post1804137