Thanks a million. Thats what I thought. But not having anything concrete back is the problem I have. The only thing I _am_ certain about is the "f" whispering in W's ear.
I suspect that people are saying to W that they do see the difference.
My real quandary (even though you say detach) is that all the "normal" long distance communication tools could be seen as pursuing.
I would love to actually e-mail or text "well done. I'm proud you found a job" The opportunity of sticking a small note in with the cable is a prime example. How the heck can I make use of this small window of opportunity?
And then I'm told it's a no-no.
BTW gima - today was a bad day. Getting over it I promise. Changing 150 litres of water for the goldfish sure took my mind off things.
Thanks once again for your insight. Truly appreciated.
As for being a better person - I take great hope from your thread. Just 'cos I don't post all the time doesn't mean I don't lurk
