gima - after seeing Ashlee's post above I dropped in on Bill and saw your reply.
Gives me hope.
The one thing I really need your help with is when you said ...
"The reason I believe your W staying under the same roof as you is important is b/c it is much easier for her to see your changes if she is around every day. That can still be done if she moves out, but it is more difficult."
How the heck do I manage this? Been apart 9 weeks now. Seen her perhaps 5 times to discuss money (great). Nothing except a text blast two weeks ago.