3 years of S, OW gone - What do I want?

[peacetoday]

SH
You are doing well
reconnecting with your H now is probablky a good idea and then practicing detatching
maybe you beed more information/time before you make any kind of decisions
you need to see where it all leads like snodderly said
then you will know
reading other posters in this spot..remember even at this point it still seems to take LOTS of time
so keep working on you
be the bets you can for you and the boys
be a friend to H..keep expectations low and make plans to have FUN with friends
you will know what to do
trust that
peace