LOL, I thought for sure I would go yesterday because there is a sale at Ulta today that I want to go to... at least I'll get to go to the sale smile

My bursts of energy come and go - I can still chase after my little toddler - it's been just her and me since I've been off since Friday and H didn't want to take her at all.

Am thinking of telling H either he spends his two weeks paternity leave here at the house with his kids or he can get bent - it's up to him whether he wants to be Daddy or just the sperm donor, and his work is generous enough to give him time off to help me in MY recovery from a medical event. I am sick of him coming and going whenever he wants, and dumping all of the responsibility on me.

I found that when I really stood my ground about the $$ thing, I got what I needed. Of course, H is a bit pissy about that right now. Maybe that's part of the 180 for me - usually I end up giving H whatever he wants so that he's happy...


Me - 30, H - 32
T - 10, M - 6, D - 1
DD#1 - 4, DD#2 - 2
on/off OW 4/09 - sometime Summer 2010 (Told me about OW 4/10)
Separated 6/11/09, divorced 8/4/10, trying again 9/2011