Jeff,

Thanks so much for that. I think his idea of separation is just another way to get at me. And he`ll do anything to scuper that plan if he tinks I want it too!

And in all of this, my biggest consideration is the kids-I just don`t want them to be devastated by some daft ill thought out vengefull announcement.

We`ll see. It`s worth a try at this stage.

He`s at home this am so I can`t stay here long. Will check up on you all in the am!

Thanks MB and TIF. You know, from where I am now, S looks like the way to go for my M.

Appreciate you all taing the time to check in on me!